Theres a difference between arrogance and telling the truth for a good reason. The reason I pointed out that I am extremely into self care was to highlight how the video I had watched framed a solution for a problem I didn’t have. Instead I then commented on the issues I actually did have and had originally hoped for the video to cover. This article was based on my response to a reply to that comment. I think if you read the article carefully that would be evident. More woman have clapped and subscribed and liked this article then men. That in itself is very telling! But tell me how “I’m” the arrogant one while you tell me what I should do to get with women in the way you think it should be. My article was more about laying out the truth and letting the reader decide what they want to do with it, not to learn generic things that don’t help anyone. But you do you boo!